The Perfect Match Exercise
Most men go into dating blind. They chase, they guess, and then they complain when it doesn’t work. But Wizards don’t guess - we design what we want first.
Here’s how:
✍️ Step 1: Grab a Paper & Pen
This isn’t in your head - this is real. Write it down.
✨ Step 2: Write Down 5 Things You Want in Your Dreamgirl
Be specific. Don’t just write “beautiful” or “fun.” Write the things that truly matter to you. Examples:
“She respects my time.”
“She has ambition.”
“She’s loyal.”
“She laughs at my jokes.”
“She takes care of herself.”
These are your non-negotiables.
🪞 Step 3: Compare to the 8 Core Types of Women
Now comes the Wizard move: take your 5 things and line them up with the 8 Core Types of Women inside Innerment.
Why? Because each type comes with strengths, weaknesses, patterns, and tests. By comparing your list with the types, you’ll see which type naturally gives what you want - and which type will never be able to.
🧩 Step 4: Eliminate the Wrong Matches
This is where most men waste years of their life. Chasing women who never had the qualities they wanted to begin with. But you? You’ll cut through the noise.
🏆 Step 5: Lock in Your Perfect Match
Once you know your non-negotiables and the type of woman that aligns with them, you stop chasing what doesn’t fit. You attract, test, and invest only in the ones that match.
⚡ Why This Works
It’s simple:
If you don’t know exactly what you want, you’ll accept anything.
But if you define it, you’ll recognize it instantly.
This is how Wizards win. By knowing what to ask for, we get exactly what we want — and we give exactly what we have.