If a Man Can Do It, So Can a Woman?!

“If a man can do it, why can’t a woman?”
It’s the phrase that comes up every time someone dares to question the differences between men and women in relationships. But let’s get real for a second - just because something is possible doesn’t mean it’s natural… or even beneficial.

 

⚡ The Double Standard (and Why It Exists)

Men throughout history have had multiple lovers. Kings, warriors, even your average “player” at the local bar - it’s a theme that comes up often. But when a woman does the same thing, society reacts differently. Is that unfair? Or is there something deeper?

Before you roll your eyes, let’s revisit The Difference Between Men and Women. Biologically, men are wired to spread their seed - women are wired to protect and nurture the seed they choose. That doesn’t make one better than the other, it makes them different.

💋 Why Men Can “Spread” but Women “Select”

- A man’s value increases by his ability to attract and lead multiple partners.
- A woman’s value, by nature, increases by her ability to choose the right partner.
- When men chase endlessly, it’s often empty (read Stop Chasing Her – Do This Instead, It’s Better).
- When women chase endlessly, it strips the power of their feminine nature.

So while a man can “get away with it” in society’s eyes, when a woman tries to mirror the same, she often ends up more drained than empowered. No don't get me wrong, a woman can have thoughts and fantasies about other men but truly going for it would make her lose value in the eyes of all other men. Not to forget about the spiritual part of having sex is literally inviting demons and trauma through the DNA of all those men. You can ask all women who have had more than a 100 sexual lovers, how they feel and if they truly feel happy the way they live and are treated by men. I can asure you the honest ones will tell you it is not at all beneficial and would rather be a virgin instead! 

Note: A high value "king" would never settle with a woman that has had 100 lovers or entertains multiple men. 

🎭 The Illusion of Equality in Love

Look at Hollywood rom-coms like The Wrong Missy. On the surface, it seems mismatched - chaotic girl meets stable guy. But when you dig deeper, as in The Wrong Missy – Perfect Match or Total Disaster?, you realize that relationships are less about surface compatibility and more about roles.

It’s the same reason Not All Women Are Golddiggers, But These Types… became such a hit with our readers. Labels are easy. But archetypes? Archetypes explain why women act differently in relationships.

🕹️ Pickup Lines vs. Real Connection

We’ve all tried or laughed at cheesy openers like the ones in Just Some Silly Pickup Lines From the Web. But as we broke down in Pick Up Lines – What Works and What Doesn’t, lines don’t create real bonds. They just open the door. What matters is what happens after.

And here’s the truth: A man juggling multiple women might use lines as quick hooks. But a woman juggling multiple men? She burns out fast, because her biology is looking for depth, not numbers.

🚀 The Innerment Advantage

That’s why we’re building The Innerment App – Almost Here. It’s designed to help you understand:

- Why men and women don’t play by the same rules.
- How to know her archetype before you waste time.
- When to hold frame and when to walk away.

It’s not about saying women can’t do what men do. It’s about showing why they often shouldn’t — and how men can stop falling for surface-level illusions.

🔗 Want More?

- Learn the first step to attracting your perfect woman in The Absolute First Step to Getting Your Perfect Woman is… Starting With Yourself.

- Understand the mental clash between men and women in Know the Difference Between Her Mind & Yours.

And if you want to build passive income streams to fuel your freedom and dating life, check out platforms like MEXC, Revolut, or even Honeygain. Because financial independence is the ultimate frame control.

⚡ Bottom Line

A man with multiple lovers is seen as strong. A woman with multiple lovers is seen as lost. Double standard? Maybe. But it’s also nature. The key isn’t to argue about equality - it’s to understand the deeper game.

Because once you do, you stop asking “why can’t women do it too?” and you start asking the better question:

“What role do I play, and what role does she play?”