⚡ The Double Standard (and Why It Exists)
We hear it all the time. Men throughout history - kings, warriors, your “player” at the local bar - they’ve had multiple lovers and society waves it off like “he’s a legend”. But when a woman does the same? Society leans in, raises an eyebrow, writes a headline. Is that unfair? Maybe. But there’s something deeper at play.
Look at the article The Difference Between Men and Women - biology, psychology, roles: they’re not identical. It’s not about one being better. It’s about difference. Men are wired to spread their seed; women are wired to protect and nurture the seed they choose. That matters in real relationships.
💋 Why Men Can “Spread” but Women “Select”
It’s deeper than social rules:
🔹 A man’s value increases by his ability to attract and lead multiple partners.
🔹 A woman’s value, by nature, increases by her ability to choose the right partner.
🔹 When men chase endlessly, it’s often empty (see Stop Chasing Her – Do This Instead, It’s Better).
🔹 When women chase endlessly, they strip the power of their feminine nature.
So while a man can “get away with it” in society’s eyes, when a woman tries to mirror the exact same game, she often ends up more drained than empowered. Not to throw shade - but ask any woman who’s had more than 100 sexual partners how she truly feels. Many will say she’d rather have been a virgin - because there’s a spiritual cost.
Spoiler-alert: a high-value “king” wouldn’t settle with a woman who entertains multiple men or has had 100+ lovers. That’s not moralising - that’s value alignment.
🎠The Illusion of Equality in Love
Grab any Hollywood rom-com - say, The Wrong Missy (or its sibling The Wrong Missy – Perfect Match or Total Disaster?). On the surface: girl meets guy, chaos meets calm. But dig deeper and you realise: relationships aren’t about “same rules for both” - they’re about roles.
Check out Not All Women Are Golddiggers, But These Types… - labels are easy. Archetypes explain why women act differently, especially when it comes to men, worth, and emotional investment.
🕹️ Pickup Lines vs. Real Connection
We’ve all done it. Tried the cheesy opener from Just Some Silly Pickup Lines From the Web. But as explained in Pick Up Lines: What Works and What Doesn’t: lines open the door. Connection carries the interaction.
A man juggling multiple women might use lines like fishing hooks. A woman juggling multiple men? She burns out fast — her biology seeks depth, not numbers. The game is different.
🚀 The Innerment Advantage
That’s why we’re building the Innerment App – Stop Guessing Women. It’s designed to help you understand:
- Why men and women don’t play by the same rulebook.
- How to know her archetype before you waste time.
- When to hold your frame - and when to walk away.
It’s not about saying women can’t do what men do. It’s about showing why they often shouldn’t - and how men can stop falling for surface-level illusions.
🔗 Want More?
- First step to attracting your woman: The Absolute First Step to Getting Your Perfect Woman Is… Starting With Yourself.
- Understand the mental clash between masculine and feminine: Know the Difference Between Her Mind & Yours.
- Build financial independence (frame control alert): consider platforms like MEXC, Revolut or Honeygain.
⚡ Bottom Line
A man with multiple lovers is seen as strong.
A woman with multiple lovers is seen as lost.
Double standard? Maybe. But it’s also nature. The key isn’t to scream “Why can’t women do it too?” - it’s to ask the better question:
“What role do I play, and what role does she play?”
Because when you understand the game, you stop applying the same rules to different pieces. You stop getting ghosted. You stop wasting time. You start winning.
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